Choosing Love Over Lust: A Christian Perspective

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Lust treats a person as an object to be used, love treats a person as a soul to be cherished (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). 

Lust is selfish, love is selfless (Philippians 2:3-4). 

Lust is shortsighted, love works with eternity in view (2 Corinthians 4:18). 

Lust is foolish, love is wise (Proverbs 3:13-18). 

Lust rushes, love is patient (Galatians 5:22-23). 

Lust is lazy, love is diligent (Proverbs 12:24). 

Lust is poison, love gives life (John 10:10).

Choose love over lust, choose life over death (Deuteronomy 30:19).

Even if you've experienced brokenness or sin in this area, there is always life in Christ (Romans 8:1). Fight for health in every aspect of your relationship, but be especially watchful over your sexual intimacy and the attitudes with which you approach it (Hebrews 13:4).

May you find strength in God's love and guidance in His Word to navigate your relationships with wisdom and grace.

 

DABY Y.

04/06/2024

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